Why Teen Relationships Don't Last

It's important to remember that teenage relationships can be complex and involve a range of emotions, including excitement, uncertainty, and even heartbreak. Teens may be still figuring out who they are and what they want in life, so it's important for them to take things slowly and communicate openly with their partner. Let me tell you the main reasons why most teen relationships don't work: (I am going to get a little toxic here but truth needs to be told)

1. Both gets too clingy to each other at the beginning, where it becomes habituated in daily basis. Too much of something doesn't turn out well in the end. There's a difference between people who frees their time for you and them who talks to you in their free time. Initially, when you invest so much time to your partner, they are going to either take it for granted or expect you to always invest more.

2. Priorities changes with time for boys as they get slapped with the reality, they need to focus on themselves for a certain period of time to get into a position where he has the ability to provide, protect and take care of his girl and his family. Whereas the girls still demands to be their main priority and demands the same old love and care.

3. A girl is taught in her entire life what to expect from a man and not how to treat them well, whereas a guy is taught in his entire life how to treat a girl without expecting anything. Some girls be like "ow I want a man who can handle me".. trust me that's the last thing men want to stress out, after working the entire day and coming at home to handle some girl. Trust me every man wants his girl to spiritually support her and create less problems, if you can't do that, stop being narcissistic and let him go, release him from this burden.

4. Some guys treat their girl so nicely, please stop being nice! Women don't want nice men, they're addicted to drama, they like bad boys. Girls need guys who are at least on their level or are more dominant/financially successful. So guys please stop being a nerd and learn to be furious and calm.

5. Understanding is important in a relationship. But the truth is most men can not tell their partner about their true feelings, because it somehow makes the girls feel they're being forced. Also it's not a good idea for a man to show their weaknesses, weakness shows your vulnerability towards them. So learn to be more stoic and mysterious, this will always let your girl to stay crazy about you and respect you. And if you're a girl, learn to share everything with your man except past relationships and about other guys, if you're always going to treat him like shit, trust me he will stop having interest in the relationship.

6. Some girls be like "I'm a Queen, I don't need a man to take care of me, I can do it myself!".. trust me this would be the dumbest thing you can say, of course you need a man, everything around you is built by men, and if you don't feel like it then don't fucking date a man, if you can't embrace him for his presence, if you can't let him have some authority over you and your relationship then don't date him. Girls may need more Love but guys choose Respect over Love so understand this and stop believing in your fantasy world.

7. Last but not least, a guy is obsessed about the girl's past life, but a girl is obsessed with a guy's future.

 My suggestion for girls: Don't tell everything about your past life to a man, lie, everyone lies so just lie. They don't have to know about certain things, just take good care of them. Help him grow, and he will take good care of you.

My suggestion for guys: If you really want your woman to stay with you, work hard on your goals, earn a better life, if she's smart then she won't let you go if she sees the potential in you. If you're going to stay a loser for your entire life, then I'd say it's better she left you. Also if you're going through a heartbreak, then congratulations you have unlimited energy now. Heartbreaks are excellent source of motivation, go hit the gym, go earn money, go and learn philosophy. Stop wasting your fucking time! Have enough self-respect to groom well, eat well and love yourself. I repeat stop being a nerd.

Peace!✌🏻